Step 1 :Let x = the number of bowls of soup
Step 2 :Let y = the number of main courses
Step 3 :\(1.75x + 4.75y = 490\) (total amount spent)
Step 4 :\(x + y = 160\) (total number of items)
Step 5 :\(\boxed{\begin{cases} 1.75x + 4.75y = 490 \\ x + y = 160 \end{cases}}\)